Self-righteous
Don't you feel annoyed when people lecture you about what you should do? At least I do. When it comes to idea and principal, I got very touchy when someone told me that I should do certain things.
Who are they to tell me what I should or should not do? I do something because I want to do it, not because people around me think that I should do it. Life is complicated enough, and I don't think anybody needs to guide people around or to constraint oneself to others' perception of life.
But then, after all has been said and done, I realize how arrogant I was in rejecting the arrogance of others? Who gave me the rights to be self-righteous in thinking that others do not have the right to lecture me?
Often, in fighting one's enemy, one has become the enemy itself.
Who are they to tell me what I should or should not do? I do something because I want to do it, not because people around me think that I should do it. Life is complicated enough, and I don't think anybody needs to guide people around or to constraint oneself to others' perception of life.
But then, after all has been said and done, I realize how arrogant I was in rejecting the arrogance of others? Who gave me the rights to be self-righteous in thinking that others do not have the right to lecture me?
Often, in fighting one's enemy, one has become the enemy itself.
posted by Pipit at
9:44 AM
3 Comments:
sometime there are people who keep watching around, we don't realise that what we do isn't appreciated or ... isn't nice to see so therefore we have to get used in the situation and people. If someone tells us not to do this or that, we better re-think about it, about why s/he tells it, whether what s/he tells is true or not. If you know that s/he completely has no right to tell you what you should do and shouldn't while everyone does similar, just don't bother him/her then. It's just a headache for you :) it means s/he is playing the boss over you
anyway, thanks for stopping by, keep blogging :)
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Anonymous, at November 14, 2005 5:53 PM
mungkin ada baiknya dengerin mereka jeng, yah at least dengerin, perkara mo dijalanin atau ngga tetep aja tergantung kita. sebagai pribadi yang dewasa, bisalah kita mendengar dan memahami poin yang ada di *masukan* mereka-mereka itu, anggap aja mereka care, say thanks lalu kita sendiri yang grab esensi yang bagus dari masukan-masukan itu *kalau ada* mix it with our own, kan bisa memperkaya sudut pandang kita terhadap sesuatu tuh. iya ngga sih?
ngga mudah apalagi buat kita-kita yang udah bisa mandiri, tapi bukan berarti ngga bisa. palingan kalo mereka dah kelewatan ya bilang aja keberatan kita in wise fashion of course
hihihi napa sok teu gini gue yak?
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Anonymous, at November 15, 2005 8:22 PM
Ah, self control.
Self control means freedom, and freedom means responsibilty.
Responsibilty is maturity.
Action and consequences. And indeed, when we realize that, ourself is become our greatest enemy.
Like that greeny 'lil old man sez :
"...use the force, Luke" :D
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Anonymous, at November 17, 2005 11:29 PM
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